RUSTY'S TIPS ON DANCE ETIQUETTE:
First and foremost, if you want to dance, stand near the dance floor in "The Flow." "The Flow"? What's "The Flow," you ask? "The Flow" is where all the are dancers walking off the dance floor at the end of a dance and on the dance floor at the beginning of a dance. Once you find out where that is, put yourself right on the edge of the dance floor in that flow to nab a partner! (No one is going to walk all the way to the back of the room or find you sitting at the bar, etc.; They are looking for people ready to dance.)
If someone asks you to dance, say "Yes!" (and why not, "Yes, I'd love to," or "Yes, thank you for asking me!"). Regardless of what "level" of dancer they are. It could be the best dance of your life...it could be the best dance of their life. Either way, it is more dancing and all fun.
Social Dance with as many people as possible. It's the 21st Century, anyone can ask anyone to dance. So get as many dances as you can; you'll have more fun and, if you are still learning (aren't we all?), you'll find you learn so much by dancing with lots of people. In America and Japan, one dance is the norm; if you had a great dance it's okay to ask for another. But then, move on. You can come and find that person later for another dance or two. In Europe, two dances is the norm! So pace yourself. If you walk away after one dance, the person will think you hated dancing with them... or you're just plain rude. Oops. Don't want that!
Ask people to dance graciously. "Would you like to dance?" "Care to dance?" "May I have this dance?" Leads, offer your arm and lead the follow onto the floor. Protect them while you dance. Take care of them. Then thank them for the dance (maybe have another one!) and then escort them off the floor as graciously as you led them onto it.
Do not correct or teach your partner on the dancefloor Remember, everyone at the dance is there ot have fun. Do not correct or teach your partner during a dance; this is very hurtful and demeaning to your partner. The exception is if your partner asks you for advice, and then only give it when you are completely assured they really mean it.
If you must turn someone down, ask for a rain check. This keeps it from being an outright rejection. Then, later in the evening, TAKE THE RAIN CHECK! This let's them know that you don't just use rain checks as a euphemism for rejecting them.
If you are sitting a dance out and have just asked someone for a rain check, please don't dance with someone else on that song. We wish that this went without saying, too, but...just remember how lousy you'd feel if someone turned you down for a dance and thirty seconds later, you saw them dancing with someone else.
Smile. At everyone. Your partner, other dancers around you, the band, the DJ, the bartenders and waitresses, total strangers. Remember, we all love this dance and the more people we can draw into it, the longer it will thrive. (And the more partners we can dance with!)
Applaud live musicians. As dancers, we get so caught up in the dancing or our partners that we forget that sometimes there are actual live musicians providing us with the music! They are an extremely vital part of a good dance. Show them some appreciation!
Support the venue. If it's a small "dancer's club" pay the cover with a smile. Someone is working hard to make it available to you and they deserve your support, financially as well as with your presence. If it is a nightclub or bar, buy lots of whatever it is you drink: cocktails, water, juices, soda, whatever. We all need to support our scene, lest we be dancing in our living rooms shortly!
You don't have to dance with people who make you uncomfortable
Remember, please NO AERIALS except in jam sessions or competitions! Aerials are those moves where a partner is lifted off the floor...obviously these are not things you want to do in a crowded space, and run the risk of hitting someone
Be nice. If you do happen to bump, kick, or otherwise strike another person, remember to acknowledge it, apologize for it, and give a humble smile and keep dancing. (unless the person requires medical attention)
Bathe regularly! We wish this went without saying, but...
Even if you bathe regularly, use deodorant.
Brush your teeth. Then use mints copiously.
Men...Please wear undershirts! This is a pretty high-energy dance, and sweating is an inevitable part of it...so do your dance partners a favor and keep dry! Women and men...On a related note, avoid sleeveless shirts while dancing, for reasons similar to those given above.
Do everything you can to create a positive atmosphere. Make new-comers feel welcome, treat each other well, dish out dancing compliments to help confidence build... Fun is contagious!